Jun
9
Anatomie der Liebe
Filed Under Men
Dearest Galina,
I don�t know whether you are teasing your readers with your comments about masculine stupidity, mean-spirited men who want to split bills in restaurants or you really mean it.
I take your point that men are obsessed by their penises - it’s part of the male psyche that would be rather difficult to eradicate, but I do think that there must be some men, in Vienna or elsewhere, who are warm-hearted, sensitive and possessing a reasonably rounded personality who try to communicate with women at a higher level than that of banging away for instant gratification.
You say you’ve lost count of the pricks. I have not lost count(well maybe one or two!) of the pussies I have met - I remember (most of) them with pleasure and affection - chiefly because nearly every one was a friend with whom there was SOME kind of relationship before the coupling began. I was also taught by some charming older women in my youth to respect women and try to share pleasure instead of taking it.
As you very wisely say, feelings are the root of the matter - without that- sex can be a mechanical pleasure best performed by oneself.
It’s good that you challenge we males in our fantasy that we rule the universe - as you well know we don�t, and look to women for all the things that we want - such as comfort, assistance - and sex! Males can be psychologically traumatized if they are refused sex - particularly when they are younger - thank goodness the desperate urges of youth are fading (a little!) There was nothing worse when I was 20 than lusting after almost every woman in sight and not being able to do anything about it - complete frustration.
There - I’ve probably proved your theory for you that men are ruled by their cocks. Because we are on two different sides of the equation, we will probably never agree on this issue, but you have my complete respect for voicing it succinctly and well.
Regards
Steven
London
