The real reasons why women have sex
The_real_reasons why women choose to have sex are much more bizarre and intriguing than you might imagine
TO GET RID OF HEADACHE
Everyone has heard: ‘Not tonight, dear. I’ve got a headache.’
However, in our study we discovered that some women choose to have sex with the goal of getting rid of a headache. One 62-year-old woman told: ‘I suffer from migraine headaches and I find that when I have sex during a headache, especially if I have an orgasm, it goes away.’ One woman reported that her doctor prescribed sex as a way to relieve migraines.
But how can sex serve as a headache catalyst and cure? During sexual activity, the body releases feel-good endorphins, the brain chemicals that bear a remarkably close resemblance to morphine. Endorphins serve as powerful pain relievers.
BECAUSE HE’S A GOOD KISSER
Another popular reason for having sex turned out to be astonishingly simple: the man was a good kisser.
Kissing between romantic or sexual partners occurs in more than 90 per cent of cultures. Human lips are densely packed with sensory neurons. One study found that kissing caused a drop in cortisol, a stress hormone, indicating a reduction in anxiety. Kissing also conveys information about health status, since bad breath can be a sign of disease or ill-health.
Women seem to use kissing as an emotional litmus test, with the outcome revealing whether they should take things to the next level in a relationship. Bad kissing is a sexual turn-off.
Kissing seems more important for women than for men for this function.
TO LOSE WEIGHT
Yes, sex can help you lose weight, and we came across women in our survey who said they increased sexual activity for this reason.
Depending on which report you read, a sexual session can burn anything from 100 to 250 calories. According to a survey of more than 1,400 women aged 18 to 59, women have sex 6.3 times a month.
OUT of DUTY
Many women, particularly married ones, claim they often have sex with their partner when they are really not in the mood because they view it as their duty.
As one 53-year-old woman put it: ‘I have been married for 32 years. It seems only natural after such a long time that once in a while you have sex with your husband only because you feel that it is your duty.’
Pleasing the man included fulfilling his sexual needs, regardless of how different they were from your own.
SYMPATHY SEX
Women are taught to be nurturers from an early age: to show empathy and compassion and to be sensitive and aware of other people’s feelings.
Several women in our study described using sex as a way to nurture people who were feeling bad about themselves.
More than a few women in their late teens and 20s reported having sex with men because they felt sorry for them. One middle-aged woman was having sex with a male contemporary because he had just gone through a divorce and she felt bad for him.
And within established relationships, several women in our study talked about having sex – even when they didn’t really feel like it – because they wanted to make their partner feel loved and secure.
TO STOP HIM BEING UNTRUE
We constantly face the risk that our partners may be tempted to leave the relationship in the hope to obtain a more desirable partner.
Among dating and married couples, our research has revealed that women often use sex to protect their relationships.
They give in to their partners’ sexual requests in an attempt to keep him happy.
‘My husband always seems happier with me after we have sex when I initiate it,’ says one 30-year-old woman. ‘He spends more time with me, and doesn’t seem to stare at other women as much.’
From Daily Mail
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